Absurdities of Sex II

Posted in Culture, Education, Faith, God, Guatemala, Mindset, Prayers, Religion, Sex, Sexuality, World with tags , , , , , , on August 15, 2017 by Boris Ekner

Mary

The key word for this article is the word virgin.

A virgin is, by modern dictionary definitions, a person who have never had sexual intercourse.

By the same definitions sexual intercourse means sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man’s erect penis into a woman’s vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen.

This definition can be questioned if we apply it to lesbian women who probably never would have a male member included in their private moments. Are they virgins? Most likely not, right?

At the time the Bible was written, and rewritten over and over again, the virgin word could be the description of an innocent young woman who had not yet given birth to a child.  That is quite different from how we understand the word virgin today.

Today we generally use the word for a person who have not had sexual intercourse, coition. This modern understanding of the word is not without complications when we look at the story of Mary.

So what happens with Mary’s story if we stay with the modern interpretation of the word?

In Mary’s case it would mean that she had never had a male member penetrating her birth canal, right?

Virgin Mary
Now, we all know from the Bible that she was impregnated by God in order to give birth to Jesus, who was the personification of God himself. For the moment, let’s ignore the fact that Mary was impregnated without her approval, and therefore by definition was raped. Let’s also ignore the fact that she was as young as 12 years old, and God therefore must be considered a pedophile. And let’s ignore that baby Jesus was born in June, not on December 25th.

Mary was a girl child and a virgin, i.e. a girl who had yet not had a male member inside her body.

From a technical/physical point of view she could have been impregnated without full penetration. All needed was one single male sperm on the outer parts of her genitals. A sperm that then moved into her body and swam all the way up to her cervix, into the uterus and fertilized the egg. It is very unlikely this ever happened but it is not entirely impossible.
Mary What Do I Tell

As Jesus was a male child, and did penetrate Mary’s birth canal at birth, was Mary still considered a virgin after giving birth to Jesus? The fact that child Jesus did penetrate his mother on the way out of her, with his whole body private parts and all, would technically make Mary a non-virgin.

– If Mary was not considered a virgin after giving birth to Jesus, it means that Mary’s virginity was lost to her son, which should be considered incest. Incest is illegal by law, and a sin according to several passages in the Bible.
Virgin Mary Baby Jesus

– If Mary still was considered a virgin after Jesus birth; was it because the penetration was in the wrong direction, i.e. from inside – out and not from outside – in? Is the direction of the penetration important when female virginity is lost? Or was she still a virgin because the penis of child Jesus most likely wasn’t erect at the time of birth?
Children of a virgin
The entire story is absurd and so are the conclusions that comes out from it. The idea with this article is to expose those absurdities.

Who is this?

Posted in Countries, Culture, Faith, God, Human Rights, Mentality, Mindset, Narcissism, Politics, Prayers, Religion, Respect, Thoughts from news and events with tags , , , , , , , , , , on August 14, 2017 by Boris Ekner

You see statues, symbols, and pictures of him wherever you walk in the city.

In order to satisfy him you have to:

  • constantly praise him.
  • constantly admire his actions.
  • constantly hail his presence.
  • constantly worship him as the greatest leader of all leaders.
  • have pictures of him in your house.

    Praise

  • From early childhood you are told that he can hear your thoughts and words.
  • To please him, you have to follow his demands on how to live your life according to the doctrines and scriptures.
  • If you criticize him in writing you will be punished.
  • If you criticize him in speech you will be punished.
  • Failing to praise him at all times and you will be severely punished and end up in a place so horrifying you cannot imagine the suffering you will face.

    – Who is it?

Worship

It is Kim Jung-Un of DPRK, the Democratic Peoples Republic of Korea, i.e. North Korea. He is the fascist/communist dictator of the worst country on Earth. Kim Jong-Un is portrayed as the reincarnation of his father Kim Jong-Il, who was the reincarnation of his father Kim Il-Sung.

Kim Il-Sung is still the president even though he died in 1994. DPRK is the only necrocracy in the world. North Korea’s leaders are portrayed as divinities.

Now, read it again, but replace Kim with your God – and tell me why one is bad and the other is good when they are so alike?

My religious journey

Posted in Countries, Culture, Education, Faith, Family, God, Guatemala, Mentality, Mindset, Prayers, Religion, Religiots, Respect, Sweden with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 13, 2017 by Boris Ekner

I was born in Sweden 1962. One son of four. Our mother is from Estonia, she and her sister was put on a boat in 1944 by their mother, to get away from the ending WWII. They barely made it across the stormy Baltic Sea. Our father is a son of three. He grew up in comfort and safety in Stockholm, Sweden.

My father married my mom. His brother married the sister. Two brothers married two sisters.

Grönbetevägen 62
My parents have always had the capability of focusing strong on joint tasks.

Together they built two large houses. First a townhouse, later a large villa of more than 150 sqm (1600 Sqf). My father did it all by himself, with the assistance of my mom.

He worked the office during the days, then rode his bicycle to the construction site and worked on the house until sunset.

Rode home, went to bed only to repeat it the next day. Both houses took him more than 2 years each to build. He’s no quitter…

Badhusvägen 11 2017-08-12 18.35.09
Religion was never a topic in my home. Never.

We had the conflicts every family has. As children of our home we where brought up to become independent. Sometimes too independent. But all in all our parents made the best they could.

At the age of three I walked a forest with my parents. As a clearing between the trees opened up in front of us a roaring sound was heard from above and behind.

Three fighter jets passed over our heads at a little more than the height of the trees.

One by one they banked hard to the left. I was stunned! They where gone in a few seconds, but the sound, the sight of the hard banking planes, it is a memory that is burned into my mind for ever.

From that moment, flying like that was what I wanted to do in life! So when the opportunity came to join the voluntary army forces in my mid teens I applied.

J35 Draken Low
I joined the voluntary branch of the Swedish army. It was exiting to shoot guns, camp in the dark forests. The structured strict military life appealed to me.

Hemvärnet

A few years after that I did my first attempt to become a fighter jet pilot. Together with others in a group of around 15 youngsters I spent an entire day being tested, from 7am to 5pm. Most guys in the group were dismissed at first brake at nine in the morning. A few more was dismissed at lunchtime. I managed to hang on until 5pm. But, at the end, I failed. Hand/eye coordination wasn’t good enough.

Around 4 years later, after military service, I was offered a second chance. I happily embraced it – and failed again…

J35 Pilot

As Sweden at the time had a draft system all men had to do military service. I had to choose between Navy (Submarine), Army (Tanks), or the Air force (Fighter Jet mechanic). As a young radar engineer I was selected for the last choice, just as I wanted. If I couldn’t fly’em I sure as hell could fix’em!

J35 Draken

During my draft year I got in touch with religion via the field priest and his few services. I found it strange that we, if ever in armed conflict, would pray for victory to the same god as our potential enemies would. But I didn’t bother to think about the contradictions. I moved on.

Fast forward to the very last years of the 1980’s I had become a father of two, moved out from my beloved Stockholm, to boringly small mid-country town of Mora, the host of the largest and longest cross country ski competition in the world, Wasaloppet.

Mora, Sweden

As I became a father in a bad marriage I had abandoned my dreams of a military career. I was young, stupid, immature, and a follower of my wife. A woman who had no dreams in life, no accomplishments, no other future than to live from paycheck to paycheck.

I worked in a factory making US military equipment, telescopic masts. When offered payment to leave, as they needed to downsize after a few years, I embraced the opportunity and started my own little tiny convenient store at the local bus stop center. But before the little shop I had divorced and started a second relationship that within time would give me my third son.

One day an elderly man, a regular customer, approached me and asked for a private meeting. I was politically involved and the local president of the Swedish equivalents to the US DEM. At this private meeting the old man asked if I wanted to become a Freemason. As most people I didn’t know much about them, but a quick internet search made me curious and I accepted.

Bergalid Falun

I have always liked to do things I’ve never done before. I have always embraced challenges. This was clearly one of those opportunities. It was the start of a 20 year long journey I will never forget, nor regret.
The Freemasons is not a secret organization. But it is an organization with secrets.

The Freemasonry taught me what my parents hadn’t, what the Air Force hadn’t, what life itself hadn’t. As a Freemason I grew as a human being, I grew as a man.

The Freemasons makes good men better. I am one of them.

Stamhuset

The Freemasonry is an organization based on strong Christian values. But it is not a church. It does not tell what is right or wrong from a religious perspective. It is not providing any dogmas. But it shows what Christianity is and how to live in a Christian society.

As I had my share of troubles in life the freemasonry gave me a safe haven without having the intention of doing so. At the freemasonry I found calm peace when my world outside was a mayhem.

Riddarsalen

When I began my freemason adventure I had a tiny belief in some kind of deity. Over the years my respect for my own belief grew, but it never grew into something big enough to have a greater impact on me. When life events where unbearable I paid visits to a local church on Sundays just to find some comfort and emotional rest.

As the Freemasons provided such comfort I became more involved. The rituals are secret so I wont tell you about those. But what I can tell is that they involve several people. I was one of them and I enjoyed it a lot. The world and time outside the freemasons became a waiting room to the next visit in the lodge. This was what I wanted and needed, for several years.

From a religious point of view, the freemasonry did make me a bit stronger as the weak believer in God I was: It did make me pray for guidance and advice from time to time. And praying made me feel better but I cannot say I ever saw any divine guidance, nor advice, that mattered in real life. But it taught me how to
become a better man, father, and husband.

Cross of Malta

I am still a Freemason and I will remain one until the day I die.

In 2008 I was divorced for the second time. Me and my youngest son lived in the best and most expensive apartment I have ever had. After two failing marriages it was clear that marriage was not for me. Been there, done that. Didn’t work out … Fuck it.

Förrådsgatan 6, Solna

My future plans did not involve a relationship. I planned to stay alone for many years to come. Support my son and see him accomplish whatever suited him the best.

Life had other plans for me…

One day a girl found me on Facebook. We started chatting. We soon understood that the likelihood we ever would meet was very small. We enjoyed our conversations a lot. She was in Guatemala, I was in Sweden.

The chats where very long and every day of the week. We both fell in love … over the phone! Damn, what a woman!

Marcia

An internal conflict with my youngest son made him move back to his mother. My relationship with my two older sons, with my parents and brothers, was scarce. I was alone and had all the freedom I

wanted to do whatever I decided.

In 2009 she visited me for the first time. It was two weeks of excitement and love. In 2010 we decided to get married. The plan was for her to move to Sweden. But as I understood that the impact on her family would be too strong, too big, I moved to Guatemala instead.

I gave away as much possessions as my children and family wanted to have. I sold what I could, and gave the rest to charity. I moved to Guatemala out of concern for my future mother in law and family.

Guatemala is a very religious country, heavily influenced by the Roman Catholic church. As I had some tiny belief coming here I thought this would not be an issue.

Oh boy, was I wrong…!

Guatemala City

We read the same Bible, but as a swede from a secular country the Bibles teachings never influences our lives that much.

Swedes are educated and therefore drawn to their own conclusions. As they do, church and religion has very little influence, if any at all, these days. But in Guatemala it influences everything. Nothing escapes the religious impacts here.

It influences the people, the culture, the entire society. It influences law and order, schooling of children, as well as politics. There is literarily nothing that escapes it. The worst part is what it does to people. People become hypocritical liars and narcissists. I have written about it here at my blog.

As the Swede I am I began openly questioning what I saw and learned. It was not appreciated. People got upset, angry, and insulted. So I decided to stay quiet for five years. That would give me time to observe and learn before asking the hard questions again.

During those first five years I worked as an English teacher. First at a language school for adults. Later I accepted the offer to work at a Catholic boy’s school that is under the supervision of Opus Dei. Opus Dei is the hard core right wing branch of the Catholic Church.

Opus Dei

My learning curve was steep but fast.

After five years in Guatemala I had lost all of the little faith I had. I did read the Bible in order to figure out what was going on within me. But my readings only sped up the process, because the stories in the Bible does not make sense when adding logic and reason to them.

So I challenged myself by watching video clips on YouTube. Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, George Carlin, Dave Allen, and others. I found them refreshingly educational.

Once you have seen the absurdities of religion it cannot be unseen.

In January 2017 I visited Sweden to get the highest grade at the Freemasons. Entering the building felt like coming home, just as the very first time I did it. The Swedish Freemasons is my second home, still is. But this time it was slightly different. The feeling of Home was more mature, with more facets.

Even though I am now an outspoken atheist I will not leave the Freemasonry. It made so much for me when I needed it the most. Even though I no longer believe in any deity I respect the organization, and what it does in society, far to much to turn my back on it. And the Freemasonry does not obligate anyone to be a religious believer. The only thing we have to confess to is to believe in a higher being.

My higher being has a name. Life.

Life it too short, too beautiful, to waste on imaginary characters that does nothing for us but providing falsehoods.

Happiness 2

Life is far more remarkable than any religion or God, far more remarkable than any religious text or scripture. Far more beautiful than any religion ever can be.

I literarily love my life. I love what I have accomplished. I love the fact that I have given life to four beautiful sons who I am the proud father of. Four sons who would not have been here if it wasn’t for me.

During the weeks before my trip to Sweden in January, 2017, I realized how much I had missed photography.

As therapy I had started writing again. When I am in emotional distress I write. It works for me; it makes me better. Writing forces me to gather and structure my thoughts.

At the beginning I wrote about food and health because the food here in Guatemala is like in the US, terrible. But it wasn’t enough.

After my first years of silence my blog took a turn. As I couldn’t speak out about religion I started writing about it. I had to, in order to stay sane in an insane country. But it wasn’t enough.

This religiot culture was driving me nuts!

I had to expand my interests to divert myself from the religious insanity that saturates everything here. Photography forces me to look for the beauty in Guatemala. Photography was the key to keep a sane mind.

Nikon D5300

So as I came back home to Guatemala I bought the best camera I have ever had. A Nikon D5300. Over the months to come I completed my equipment with the accessories I wanted and now I am all set for a hobby that will last for years.

Guatemala is such a beautiful country. The sceneries nature provides are breathtakingly beautiful. By focusing on this instead of corruption, crime, murders, pollution, bizarre religious stupidities, crumbling infrastructure, and all the other absurdities, I have found an interest that will divert my attention to the good things in Guatemala. I needed it.

View from a balcony May 27, 2017 (1 of 1)

Pictures are found at
www.instagram.com/borisekner

My best ones at
www.500px.com/borisekner

I got my first camera at 7, a Kodak Instamatic. Always have had a camera since then. At age 8 or 9 my parents made a dark room for my mom and me. During the last 5-6 years of elementary school I had weekly photo classes.

Some uses photography to document their lives. I do too, to some extent. But my focus in more on the artistic side of it. I want pictures so beautiful that they should displayed on a wall.

As my youngest son Phillip has shown interest in photography I gave him a camera when he turned six this year. So from now on I will take him shooting every once in a while. I look forward to these moments with him.

Fujifilm S8600

I didn’t lose faith. I got rid of it, I trew it out the window – and I don’t want it back!

We don’t need religion to be good to one another. We don’t need religion to do what is right in life. We don’t need religion to find beauty in life. We don’t need religion to be strong when life is tough on us. – We need love and appreciation, we need support and hope. And we create it ourselves. No distracting God has anything to do with it.

Life itself is too short to waste on imagination and manmade religious characters.

Far better is to focus on what we have on hand. Life itself.

Absurdities of Sex I

Posted in Culture, Dios, Faith, God, Guatemala, Human Rights, Hypocricy, liars, and go-fuck-yourselves., Mentality, Mindset, Narcissism, Prayers, Religion, Religiots, Sex, Sexuality with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on August 11, 2017 by Boris Ekner

For some people this is logical…

As God is omnipresent he is watching us when we have sex – and he has opinions on how we perform, what we do, how we do it.

But he won't tell us anything until we are dead souls at the Pearly Gates. If we had the right kind of sex we will be let into Heaven, but if we had the wrong sex we will be sent to Hell.

But as God is the omnipotent initiator and creator of everything he decides what we do when having sex, so we are really not responsible for our own actions, are we?

Last but not least, God is the omniscient, and therefore immediately knows the consequences of making us have unapproved sexual activities, activities he is the responsible initiator of.

So God is the one making us have inappropriate sex and then he punish us for having it.

You have to be a special kind of stupid to believe in this.

From my humble point of view – the above mentioned either makes God an sadistic asshole, or a psychopath. Or both.

The bottom line of all religions is to oppress women in order to grant men access to female genitalia at all times to masturbate within. That's the core reason for this religious obsession with sex.

Disclaimer
The Bible mentions nothing explicit regarding sexual positions. But some theists argue that God has opinions on the subject, as seen in the picture added to this post.

Gods omnipresence
https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/God~s-Omnipresence

Gods omnipotence
https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/God~s-Omnipotence

Gods omniscience
https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/God,-Omniscience-Of

The Bible on sexual positions
https://www.openbible.info/topics/different_sex_positions_

The Bible on sexual immorality
https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Immorality,-Examples-Of-Sexual

The religious mind

Posted in Arrogance, Children, Countries, Culture, Faith, God, Guatemala, Hypocricy, liars, and go-fuck-yourselves., Mentality, Mindset, Narcissism, Offensive, Prayers, Religion, Religiots, Respect with tags , , , , , , , on August 1, 2017 by Boris Ekner

There is an explanation to the religious mindset.
-It has a very limited access to thought.

Sad child

The religious mindset pays very little attention to logic and reason, but is primarily focused on feelings. What feels to be right is therefore right.

To critizise

Angry at computer

 

 

 

 
The sometimes violent reactions to religious criticism is a consequence of their impaired emotional state of mind. They cannot control, hold back, their anger in their defense of the religion they confess to, because religious critique is a personal matter.

From my point of view religion have impaired them emotionally to become irrational and unstable – and that can, under the right circumstances, be dangerous.

Two ways to be fooled

 

This means that if you are an atheist engaging in conversations on religion with religious people you have to appeal to the feelings of your audience, as it is the only pathway to their comprehension.

More in this topic here:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/religious-people-beliefs-cling-contradict-evidence-facts-moral-compass-research-athiests-analytical-a7863446.html

 
Slander

What happens…

Posted in Arrogance, Culture, Education, Faith, God, Human Rights, Mentality, Mindset, Narcissism, Offensive, Prayers, Religion, Religiots, Respect with tags , , , , , , , , , , on July 30, 2017 by Boris Ekner

There is an explanation to the religious mindset. -It has a very limited access to thought.

What happens in the mind of a person who believes? What happens in the minds of a population who believes?

Several criteria have to be fulfilled by the believer.

  1. Accepting that there is an imaginary power that only has your best in mind, but never tells you in advance what that is. -The same imaginary power that care for you does not give a damn about the hungry, sick, or poor. And that is OK.

Heaven2. Accepting that not understanding is OK and expected of you. -In order to comply to this criteria, you cannot ask questions, nor can you express any critical thinking at all.

3. Accepting that logic and reason, the core of all science, are the enemy of all faiths. –Science has proven religions wrong so many time we have lost count. Religion has never, not once, done the opposite.

4. Accepting that Jesus is the personification of God. -This means that God impregnated Maria, through rape, with himself. God then killed himself on the cross, only to resurrect three days later, went back to Heaven and sat down on his own right side. Makes perfect sense, doesn’t it?

5. Accepting that an unknown uncommunicative and deaf-mute power is in charge of everything in your life. -This power gave you life and will also be the one taking it away from you one day. You don’t, however, know when or how that last moment will occur. This criteria plants fear of death in you and you are obligated to appreciate that fear as a good feat, and praise its existence. The entire idea is morbid.

Mental slavery 2
6. Accepting that other humans will obligate you to follow what they tell and teach. -I.e. accepting that they, as believers in the same imaginary deity as you, are better called to obligate you to comply to the religion than you are. If you neglect to do what they tell you will be severely punished.

7. Accept that there is a better place than Earth, called Heaven. A place so good you will never want to leave. –In Heaven you will live in peace and harmony. Here you are obligated to admire and praise your God, for eternity. However, you cannot leave if you after some time find this life with constant praise boring. Heaven, just as Hell, is a prison. The belief in an afterlife and Heaven is the admiration of a death cult. It is morbid.Hell

8. Accepting the concept of a Heaven or a Hell. If you are good while living Heaven awaits you. If you are bad while living, Hell will be your final destination. –However, if you’re the bad one you can always ask for forgiveness, and Heaven will be you granted.
This means that Hitler, Pol-Pot, rapists, child abusers, murderers, are in Heaven if they asked for forgiveness. But as my loving and friendly grandmother never was a believer she is in Hell together with most scientists who’s ever lived. Heaven or Hell, what bullshit death cult is this?Death cult

9. Accepting that you will be judged after your deity has put you to death. -No matter what you do while living, or say when dead, your forthcoming judgment will occur. No matter the judgment placed on you, you will either be forced to end up praising a God, or live in pain, for the rest of eternity. You have no third option; you cannot leave either of them. Believing in this is the wish to be an intellectual slave.

After death

10. Accepting the power of a whimsical dictatorship of whom you have no influence. -This dictatorship will punish you for your actions, for thinking the wrong thoughts, and for dreaming the wrong dreams while you sleep. This dictatorship demands full worship and control your thoughts, your mind, and your actions, at all times. It is the worship of a tyrant.

11. Accepting the above is the full enslavement of the human mind. It is the full opposite of physical and intellectual freedom. It is the full opposite of the freedom of thought for the human mind. Accepting the above is the worst that can be accomplished for the human intellect.Mental slavery

12. For women it is even worse than so far described. In all religions women are secondary. Men is the norm; men are the favored gender. -All religions have the same bottom line. It is to fully oppress women in order to grant men access to female genitals at all times to masturbate within. Any woman accepting and supporting this oppression is an enemy to her sisters and her own gender.

Maria
Accepting the above will, one way or the other, influence everything you do or think. It will create a state of mind that will not think freely, a mind that will accept whatever said, no matter how ridiculous or wrong it is.

It will create a gullible personality that will not form opinions. A mind that can be fooled into accepting and believing in whatever stupidity presented no matter how ridiculous or morally wrong it is.

When implemented on a population it will accomplish a state of full power to the ones in power. It is a great tool for full control of the human being.

In order to be successful with this destructive indoctrination and intellectual pollution religions have to engage in all the above at a very early age of man. Most successful are the religions who starts with infants as infants have not yet reached the age of reason.

Least successful are religions who try to implement their world views on adults. Here the success rate is so low it is almost invincible.

Woody Harelson

Religions are nothing but an insult to the human intelligence. Religion is chloroform in print.

Now, what happens to the person who decides to abandon the indoctrinated religion?

Religion is over

If the religion is Islam s/he might face the death penalty, as it is Islam’s consequence for apostasy. This does not exist in practiced Christianity.

No matter the religion abandoned, the intellectual freedom that follows for the apostate is often breathtakingly surprising. The mental freedom of not having a deaf-mute uncommunicative deity in charge is never more appreciated.

Absurdity of God

Apostasy is the total freedom of the human mind and intellect.

Ofenderse

Posted in Arrogancia, Culture, Dios, En Español, Narcissism, Ofenderse, Religion with tags , , on July 28, 2017 by Boris Ekner

Con algunos padres crecemos aprendiendo a ser y sentirnos aún más débiles que cuando nacimos. Este es el escenario clásico si tenemos padres comprometidos con una religión. Como resultado, aprenderemos a ser inseguros de nosotros mismos, de nuestras habilidades, de nuestras personalidades, como tales, nos volveremos inseguros y fácilmente ofendidos como adultos. Gracias a los padres seremos tan inseguros de nosotros mismos que tomaremos todo lo dicho personalmente, como crítica personal. Como no hemos aprendido a lidiar con la crítica personal, por nuestros padres, obtendremos emocionalmente afectados por ella y nos ofenderemos.

Offended 6

– ¿Cómo se siente eso, emocionalmente herido por palabras simples y sencillas, siendo emocionalmente afectado y herido por las palabras de la opinión o la crítica de otra persona?

– ¿Cómo se siente ser esa persona débil? ¿Cómo se siente ser ridículamente patético?

Con otros padres crecemos para ser una persona fuerte con una personalidad llena de confianza y autoestima. Una persona que se atreve a desafiarse a sí mismo, así como las normas de la sociedad, una persona que es valiente, una persona con una personalidad fuerte y una mente abierta. Una persona que está ansiosa por aprender, ansiosa por saber más y saber que se puede hacer. Esta es una persona que no toma la crítica personalmente, sino como una oportunidad para escuchar, pensar, evaluar y mejorar.

Offended 4 Mere words

No elegimos a nuestros padres. Pero elegimos  quien nos gusta ser.

Si eres el que se ofende – crecer y aprender a ser un adulto.

Siempre es la persona débil que se ofende, y en los ataques de defensa los más fuertes. Una persona fuerte no se ofende porque no tiene esa debilidad dentro.

Si usted se ofendido, usted tiene un problema de la imagen del usted mismo porque usted asume que todos y cada uno de los comentarios son personales y en contra de usted. Usted hace esto porque usted tiene una personalidad auto centrada e inflada que está a punto de dividirse – de meras palabras. Por eso te ofendes tan fácilmente.

Si usted es la persona fácilmente ofendida usted es probablemente, en algún nivel, un narcisista también. Porque sólo el narcisista tiene la auto imagen inflada.

Si piensas que los demás no pueden o no deben decir lo que quieren, en tu presencia, porque te afecta emocionalmente y ofendes, en realidad estás diciéndoles que, como no puedes controlar tus sentimientos, te les impones a ellos para controlar tus sentimientos. Usted les está diciendo que es su tarea mantenerte feliz. Eso está mal.

Offended 2 Stephen Fry

Diciendo a otros que usted se ofende es apenas un lloriqueo ingenuo. Ofenderse no es un argumento válido. Ofenderse no le da los derechos de cerrar a otras personas ya que tienen libertad de expresión. De hecho ofenderse es su consecuencia de su libertad de expresión.

Pero, ¿cuál es el resultado si callas a otros porque te ofendes tan fácil?
– Lo primero es hacer silencio. Tienes gente a tu alrededor que nunca te dirá la verdad, que nunca expresará opiniones, que nunca expresará afectos, sentimientos o pasiones.
– Lo segundo, usted conseguirá que cuando la gente te hablen, te dirá mentiras directamente a la cara sin  parpadear. Usted tendrá a gente alrededor de usted que es hipócrita, solo satisfacen sus sensaciones y el estado de tu mente. Eso es lo que obtienes, mentirosos e hipócritas tranquilos.

Ofenderse no es más que un sentimiento simple e inmaduro. Usarlo como un argumentes anunciar públicamente que usted es emocionalmente débil. Tienes falta de fuerza, falta de autocontrol, falta de autoestima, falta de personalidad y sufres de estupidez absoluta. Diciendo a otros que se ofende, es decirles que eres un idiota emocional.

Si usted se ofende fácilmente, usted no es un adulto. Todavía eres emocionalmente un niño que necesita aprender a lidiar con la edad adulta.

Tratar con él. – Crecer.

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La ironía sarcástica es que sólo tarda unos 15 años en sobresalir en esta disciplina de victimización auto infligida. Todo lo que necesita para convertirse en un Maestro, son los padres que, durante su infancia, son reacios a mostrarle afecto, confianza, interés y amor honesto. Todo lo que necesita son padres reacios a demostrar que son importantes para ellos. Y si ellos critican y se burlan de ti en lugar de animarte y respetarte, vas a dominar esta disciplina incluso antes.

Como Maestro de esta disciplina podrás detectar un insulto mucho antes de que sea visto o hablado. Como el Maestro, será capaz de sospechar que todos hablan de usted detrás de su espalda. Con su maestría usted esperará a que todo sea ofensivo y Esperará que todos apunten y que  apunten a sus sentimientos sensibles. Como tal usted estará en alerta completa en todo momento, listo para ofenderse, dañado emocionalmente, y listo para demostrar su cólera, a veces cólera violenta.

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Como Maestro de esta disciplina ahora pasarás el resto de tu vida como La Víctima Maestra. Una Víctima Maestra de los Sentimientos Perjudiciales.  Misión cumplida.

La solución de la realidad.
– Usted no es importante para todos y todos los demás. ¡El sol, o el mundo, no está evolucionando alrededor de usted!
– No todo lo que se dice es sobre ti. Francamente, usted no es en absoluto tan interesante para otras personas como usted cree que es.
– No tome todo lo que escucha de forma personal. Estás lejos de ser tan importante o interesante para otras personas.

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Cuando te ofendes por las palabras de una persona, ¿quién está en control de tus sentimientos en ese momento?

– Sin duda no eres tu quien los está controlando. Y se pondrá peor para ti, si el infractor entiende esto y decide tomar ventaja de su debilidad. Al no permitir que las palabras ofensivas te hagan daño, las palabras ofensivas no pueden herirte, y no te ofenderás. En cambio, permanecerás en control de tus sentimientos

I don't have your feelings

Elige no ser herido. Elije no ser afectado, tranquilo y feliz. ¡Sonríele a tu ofensor y que él/ella sepan que él/ella es un tonto, un idiota, un fracasado negligente, y aléjate. Es decir. No dejes que las palabras hirientes entrar en la piel y defender por sí mismo.

No dejes que las palabras dolorosas entren en tu piel. No permitas que las palabras duras te afecten. Es tan fácil como eso.

– Pruébalo, prueba que estoy equivocado.
… y mientras lo haces, crece.

Este es el comediante Steve Hughes sobre el tema.


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Ahora, para mi público religioso, vamos a hacer una prueba de cuatro etapas, un ejercicio …

1.
La religión es como tener un pene.
-Está bien tener uno.
-Está bien estar orgulloso de tener uno.
-Está bien disfrutar de tener uno.
Pero no está bien sacarlo de sus pantalones en público, darle la vuelta o meterlo en la garganta de otro sin preguntar primero.

2.
La Iglesia Católica es la asociación legal más grande del mundo para los pedófilos.

3.
La Madre Teresa adoraba más el dolor que la fe. Esto significa que no ayudó a sus pacientes enfermos. Porque cuanto más era el dolor, más cercano a Dios vinieron. Eso hace a madre Teresa una perra, un culo religioso.

4.
Todas las religiones tienen el mismo trasfondo. Subyugar a la mujer con fin de que los hombres tengan acceso sexual y poder. Masturbarse dentro de ellas cada vez que lo consideren conveniente.
– Las religiones son para los hombres obsesionados sexualmente.

Si esto no te ofendió, bien echo!!!
Si, si te ofende – léelo despacio otro par de veces esta vez con tu mente y tu cuerpo en el mismo lugar, idiota!!

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